subject: How Sincere Should You Be With Your New Girlfriend/boyfriend [print this page] Can you be 100% sincere with your lover related to your ex-relationships? Have you ever asked yourself if sincerity is the most important thing when it comes to a commitment? At some moment or another, couples start talking about their previous engagements. This is a chance to remember what was in the past but is it necessary to reveal all details? As an example, must a woman/man tell everything about his/her ex?
1. There is ''yes'' and ''no'' as possible answers for this question
Yes, you should be sincere with your new partner, analyze what was good or not so good in your previous relationships. Such discussions will build a felling of trust and mutual understanding.
2. Don't let him/her know you regret not being together with your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend anymore
Your lover can understand you regret those times and you are not happy with what you have at the moment. Don't be too much interested in the past if you want a future together. What happened before meeting your present lover should stay in the past.
3. Don't tell your lover you had too many partners, let's say more than 10
It's better to keep this a secret. As an example, a woman with lots of ex-boyfriends does not make a good impression, the same as a man who had many ex-girlfriends. Saying the whole truth sometimes cannot be a good idea, it can ruin a relationship. So, think twice before saying something about your past.
