subject: How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - Why It Seems So Hard To Do Right Now [print this page] I am willing to bet that you are reading this article because right now, you are finding it hard to win back your ex girlfriend. In fact, it probably seems harder to win her back than it was to win her over the first time around. Somehow you seemed to get that part right and it didn't even seem that difficult at all. Things are definitely different this time around. If you don't CHANGE the way that you approach your goal of being able to get her back... it's probably not going to happen. That's the reality you are facing.
WHY IT SEEMS TO BE SO HARD RIGHT NOW -
Your ex girlfriend knows you now. She knows you better than you think she does. When you first met her, you were still a surprise to her. She didn't quite get you at that point and because of that, she didn't really have many "defenses" against you. When a woman knows a guy really well, she knows what he is up to even when he doesn't quite know what he is up to. That is what you are facing right now. Your ex girlfriend knows you and she knows how to defend against your charms, your way of trying to make her feel attracted to you.
IT'S TIME TO START OVER -
You have to find a way to start over, from scratch so that she doesn't have such an easy time fending off your advances. That's not an easy thing to do. As men, we are creatures of habit. We tend to do the same things again and again. The problem is, if you keep approaching your ex girlfriend the same way that you have been and you already know that it is not working, what is going to change that? What is going to make her all of a sudden want to get back with you?
Nothing.
If you want to get your ex girlfriend back and if you want things to seem a little bit easier, the way that you approach your ex girlfriend has to take her by surprise. Kind of like she is meeting you again, but for the first time.
Make her feel that way and you'll find that winning her back doesn't have to be that hard at all. It can be just as easy or even easier than it was the first time around. Of course, if you keep on doing the same things over and over to try to make her want you back and it just isn't working, you really can't expect things to get any easier, can you?
