subject: How To Find The Right Guy - 3 Tips For Meeting And Qualifying Men [print this page] You have to be able to meet guys if you want to get a boyfriend, but if you want to get a good guy, then you also have to learn how to qualify men. This is one of those skills that if you develop if sufficiently, it will save you from a lot of headaches from dealing with the wrong guys. Too often, women will find themselves in situations where they want to have a boyfriend so much, that they end up with the wrong guy and try to put up with it just so that they don't have to go back to being single. You don't want to end up feeling that way, do you?
Here are 3 tips for meeting and qualifying guys so that you don't have to deal with that:
1. Meeting men in the wrong places is going to make it hard to find the right one.
You can't expect to meet the guy of your dreams if you end up looking in the wrong places, right? So, that is really one good and easy way to qualify men. If you happen to run into him in the kind of place where only sleazy guys hang out, chances are... that is what he is even if he comes across as being different.
2. Just because he is cute, it doesn't mean that he is going to be a good boyfriend, so try to look deeper than that.
You don't want to go out with a guy just because you think he is cute. There are a lot of good looking jerks out there, so don't think that just because he looks a certain way, that he is a great guy. You can't always judge a book by its cover and if you do that with the guys you meet, you may end up with the wrong one just because he "looks" like a good guy.
3. Don't move too fast when you meet a guy you are attracted to, because that can end up clouding your judgement.
I have a friend who has had the pattern of moving too fast with guys she likes for a long time and it always ends up badly. And the problem that she faces when she does that is, she ends up falling for a guy despite all of his obvious red flags that she should be noticing and she would, if she didn't move so fast with them. So, try not to do that to yourself. It just complicates things more than they already are.
