subject: Is He Having An Affair? 3 Signs That Might Point To Yes [print this page] What would be one of the worst things that you could find out about your boyfriend if you really care about him and hope to have a future with him? Probably finding out that he is having an affair. Knowing that a guy could go out and cheat on you when you have such strong feelings for him is one of the worst things that can happen to a woman, and you certainly hope that it is not true. However, you probably also don't want to end up being one of those women who is the last to know that her guy is stepping out on her.
Here are 3 signs that point to yes if you are worried that he might be cheating on you.
1. The classic scent of another woman on him.
You know what your smell should smell like, so if you get near him and can tell that there is another woman's fragrance on him and it is strong enough that he was obviously VERY close to her, you might want to assume that the worst is true. Some guys are smart about covering this up though, so not smelling it doesn't necessarily mean that he isn't cheating on you.
2. He makes plans that you can't be a part of and doesn't want to give you any details.
Does your guy go out a little more often than he used to? Are you not allowed to go out with him when he does? And does he get a little bit angry if you ask about the details of where is he going and what he is up to? If so, then he may be trying to hide the fact that he is going out to meet with another woman. It could be the case that he just wants to hang with the fellows, but usually he will let you know that this is what he is doing.
3. He starts ridiculous arguments with you, almost like he is hoping that you will break up with him.
Some guys are a little bit too chicken to end the relationship when they have another woman on the side, so they start to do things to get under the skin of their wife or girlfriend with the hopes that she will be the one that ends the relationship. If he seems to be doing this, starting arguments for ridiculous reasons, it could be that he is seeing another woman and he is hoping that you will be the one that ends the relationship.
