subject: Keep Your Jealousy Under Control [print this page] Have you ever been jealous because of a woman? What were the reasons? Are you sure she did something to arouse your jealousy or it's only because of your imagination? Jealousy is a feeling that should not appear when two people are in love, if it comes out, you may act silly and embarrass yourself. Next time when you do see your girlfriend talking to a man, be sure you find out what's it about before making a scene. There are some tips to help you keep your jealousy under control:
1. Usually men become jealous when they have a good relationship and their partner only talks to another man. If she sees you want to keep her under total control and forbid her to socialize, your girlfriend will show you she is her own boss and flirt with another man just to make a point. So, let her socialize as much as she wants.
2. Don't try to change her personality
If in her group of friends there are men, either gay or straight, don't try to chase them out. Her friends are just friends but you are her lover. Don't try to control every move she makes. Would you like her to tell you not to have any women in your group of friends?
3. If she shows interest in other men
If she flirts with other men and wants you to see this, don't get mad. It means she does not deserve you, so move on to a new relationship.