subject: My Mistakes Did Not Stop Me From Getting Back My Love. Will Yours Stop You? [print this page] Do you know when you really realize that you love your ex? I think you can guess. Yes it is when they are not with you anymore. As soon as you realize this you say to yourself that you want them back. Well, you have to do what needs to be done right now before it is too late.
I know mistakes were made between you two that is why you are no longer together. You have been a stupid and you did stupid stuffs. Now you think that these mistakes can play against you to get your love back. Well, you are right, your ex will take into consideration your mistakes but this does not mean that you can not get them back. Your aim must be to try to win your love back. Dont think of the result, just try.
Well, of course getting your love back will take time. It is a step wise process and each step should be monitored closely. Dont be in a hurry and have patience. Be cool, play it cool and be smart. So, if the relationship you were in was not a steady one meaning it involved many chaotic situations, then it may take more time to rekindle compared to a stable one.
Now you must go through a difficult process and this process is the healing process. You have to heal yourself from all the sentiments associated with the break up and all the mess about the relationship. The minimum time you need alone is one month. During this time stay as far as you can with your ex. Now if you cheat, it is you who is going to lose. All those who have bypassed this process had faced failures.
Alone, take a look at your mistakes and own them up. This is how your ex can forgive you. Act maturely. Accept your stupidity. Find ways to avoid such behaviors in the future. Be honest to yourself. Find true solutions. Otherwise you will experience break ups over and over again.
