subject: Divorce Over Cleaning-stop Fighting Over The Housework! [print this page] Picture this, You just met the woman of your dreams, and for you girls, you just met the man of your dreams, You two really hit it off, you looked at her he looked at you, it's all fun and games until someone starts leaving their belongings behind. A ton of relationships revolve around being a healthy relationship, and this includes cleaning up after yourself.
No one likes cleaning after anyone, but you know, it's life, and you have to learn to deal with it, Say your spouse leaves his/her dirty smelly socks on the floor, would you want to pick it up? I didnt think so, so don't argue over it on who should pick it up, just encourage the other partner to clean up after themselves, no yelling needs to be involved, just simple instructions to the other spouse on cleaning up after themselves.
Many troubled marriages involve not cleaning up, but now you can change that, if the other spouse doesn't want to clean up after themselves, so be it, do the same to them and see how they like it, you don't have to be a slave of theirs, you both are equal counterparts, and you both deserve a fair healthy relationship, so dont let the other person tell you what to do. The more you two work things out, the better your life together will be.
You could spend your married life arguing over the dishes, who will vacuum and who cleaned the bird poop off the windows, or, you two can come to a consensus to work out a deal so you both will be happy. However, if you don't work things out, this could lead to many intense arguments and vacuum cleaners for birthday gifts. You should avoid this at all costs, don't be a kiss up and do whatever the other person says, suck it up and tell them you shouldn't be fighting over all this cleaning, the simplest way to avoid this is by hiring a good cleaning company, It will certainly make your home more pleasant, and it just might save your marriage. So think about it, would you rather loose your true love over unwashed dishes, or would you want to stay until death do you part, Your partner is your life and precious treasure of your life, it's your choice to make a change, your choice to change you life!
