subject: Getting Back In Touch With A Former Girlfriend - 3 Ways To Do This [print this page] Have you ever had flashbacks to the days when you were dating a former girlfriend of yours and when you do, it makes you want to know whether or not you have a chance of being able to rekindle anything with her? Most guys reach a point where they begin to think about a former girlfriend, but most don't actually do much of anything to see if they do have a chance of dating her again. And if they do try, they usually end up making a fool of themselves, so they don't really have much of a chance at all.
What if you want to get back in touch with a former girlfriend? What if you want to take action because you don't want to be one of those guys who does nothing about it?
Here are 3 ways that you can go about getting in touch with her:
1. Pick up the phone and give her a call.
This would be the number one recommendation that I would give and there is a good reason for that. Getting in contact with her on the phone is the most actionable thing that you can do that isn't going to look weird. It might look weird to go and find her in person, but picking up the phone and dialing her number isn't that weird at all. Plus, it gives you the chance to banter back and forth with her to see if you still feel something when you hear the sound of her voice.
2. Send her a text message.
I am not a big proponent of this approach. The reason for that is that typing words on a screen doesn't really do much to trigger an emotional response from your ex girlfriend and you don't get to hear the sound of her voice to see if there is any excitement when you make contact with her. It's better than nothing, but I'd go with the phone call over the text message any day of the week.
3. Contact her on Facebook.
As much as I don't like the idea of texting your former girlfriend to get in touch with her, I really don't like this idea. Want to know why? I have lots of female friends on Facebook that I have known for a long time and guess what? They have a LOT of their ex boyfriends on their friend list. So, just getting in touch on Facebook isn't really that big of a deal and getting her to friend you doesn't really prove that she still has feelings for you. Again, this is better than doing nothing, but it is not the strongest move that you can make if you want your ex girlfriend back.
