subject: How Do I Win Him Back If He Is Acting Cold To Me? 3 Tips To Help You With Your Ex Boyfriend [print this page] When you feel like you want to explore the idea of getting back with an ex boyfriend, but at the same time you notice that he is acting cold to you, it can be confusing. You definitely know what it is that you want, you want to find a way to get him back. However, his behavior might lead you to believe that this is not going to be possible and you might feel as though you'd be better off living with the fact that you want him back, but not actually getting him back. I can see why it can be such a confusing time, and I'd like to give you some suggestions that might help you win him back even if he is acting cold towards you right now.
Here are those three suggestions:
1. Talk to him about why he is acting that way if you can, just so that you can get a better understanding of what is going on in his mind.
You may find out that he doesn't even realize that he is coming across as acting cold. Or, you might find out exactly why he is acting that way. Either way, it doesn't hurt to ask and even though you may not get an answer, you never know until you at least try to talk to your ex boyfriend.
2. Flirting with him might be a good way to warm him back up to you.
You might feel a little self conscious about flirting with your ex boyfriend if you don't really know what he is feeling, but this is another situation where you really don't know what will happen unless you give it a try. You may find that all it takes is a little bit of flirting to warm him back up and get him talking to you again.
3. Ask around to see what might be going on.
If you know people that know him, you might get an answer to what is going on with your ex boyfriend through them. I am not usually one to suggest things like this, but in the case of wanting to win back an ex boyfriend, all is fair. If you share mutual friends, this can be an easy thing to do and you might just get some insights into what is going on with him and whether or not you really have a chance of winning back your ex boyfriend.
