subject: How To Get A Girlfriend - What If You Feel Too Shy To Ask A Woman Out On A Date? [print this page] Feeling like you are too shy to ask a woman out on a date is one of the MANY things that can hold you back from seeing any kind of success when it comes to dating. While it is natural to feel some trepidation about asking out a woman, if it is so strong that you never ask a woman to go out with you, then you really don't have much of a chance of being able to land a date anytime soon, do you?
What if you feel too shy to ask a woman out on a date?
The key to being able to get comfortable with asking a woman out is in knowing that you have the conversation skills to make her feel like she is getting increasingly attracted to you. As the conversation goes on, you want her to seem like she is getting more and more interested in whatever it is that you have to say. When you see that she is starting to feel this way, you are going to end up feeling a lot more confident and that is going to help you feel like you can pull the trigger and ask her out.
So, how do you get to that point where you have those kind of conversation skills?
1. Practice, practice, practice.
You can't expect that you are going to go from feeling totally nervous and awkward about asking a woman out on a date to feeling totally at ease without a little bit of practice. Really, you should be getting in as much practice as you can. There are so many situations that you are going to go through in your day where you have the chance to make small talk with women, so make the most of it. It's going to help you out when you do end up talking to a woman you really like and you want to feel confident about asking her out.
2. You need to be clear about the fact that you are interested in her.
Don't be so bashful about the fact that you are attracted to a woman that you try to hide your attraction completely. There is a difference between playing it cool and acting like you have no interest at all in a woman. You don't want her to feel like you have no interest at all, because that is going to probably end up working against you more often than not. You can show interest in a woman without acting like you are desperate for her attention.
3. You also need to be able to mix in a little flirtatious humor when talking to a woman.
This is one of those things that some guys think they either have it or they don't and they will assume that they don't have much ability to make a woman laugh when they are flirting with her. It's good to make her laugh and most of the time, if the flirting is going really good, it doesn't take much to make her giggle.
