subject: Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend - She May Not Take You Back Right Away [print this page] It's good for you to have some idea of what is ahead of you if you are trying to get back with your ex girlfriend, so that you don't end up getting disillusioned or disappointed at the wrong time. Just because you don't get the chance to patch things up with her right away, that's not always a sign that you won't be able to. There are lots of situations where you might not be able to get back with your former girlfriend right away, but that doesn't mean that you won't be able to get her back later on.
Why would it work out that way?
Because when it comes to things like patching up a relationship, it's usually the guy who wants to rush and the woman who wants to take things slow. You have to realize that things have to happen at her speed and not at yours. If you try to rush things and make it happen at the speed that you want it to happen, you might end up ruining what could be a good thing. You might just have to check yourself emotionally and realize from a practical standpoint that waiting for things to progress at the right pace is going to be the best thing that you can do.
So, how do you get her to feel like she wants to work things out at her own pace?
It starts with you showing her that you are not going to try to coerce her into making a decision about getting back together. While you can do things to try and make her see that this would be the right thing to do, at the end of the day, it has to feel like it is her idea. If you can make her feel that way, then the chance that you will be able to win her back is definitely going to be a lot greater than if you try to coerce her into patching things up at your pace.
Besides showing her that you are not going to try to coerce her into getting back together, you need to also work on making her feel like she is being romanced by you again. When you can make her feel like the romance is real and that there is really passion that is reigniting between you and her, you'll see that it is a lot easier to get her on the same page as you about reconciling the relationship.
