subject: How To Sexually Attract A Woman - 4 Mistakes That Guys Usually Make [print this page] There really aren't many secrets about making a woman want you, but if there was one thing that does seem to be a secret to a lot of guys, it is the simple fact that you need to be able to make a woman feel sexual attraction towards you or else you really haven't got much of a chance of being able to ever have any physically intimate moments with her. You can have emotionally intimate moments, like having long conversations over a warm cup of coffee with a woman if she doesn't feel sexually attracted to you, but that isn't nearly as much fun as being able to lead her into your bedroom, is it? No, it certainly is not the same and I highly doubt that you are reading this article with the hopes that you are going to be more successful at getting long winded conversations with women, you are reading it because you want to be able to get a woman into bed with you.
There are mistakes that you don't want to make when it comes to sexually attracting a woman and that is what I want to touch base on in this article. It's important to understand what mistakes you can end up making, because the fewer mistakes that you make in trying to make a woman feel sexually attracted to you, the more likely it is that you are going to get that outcome that you want to get.
Here are 4 mistakes that guys usually make when they are attempting to attract a woman sexually and obviously, these are going to be things that you want to avoid doing:
1. Guys will use the approach of trying to act like they are her best friend without any ulterior motives and that usually ends up being a big mistake.
Now, you might be asking yourself, why would this be a mistake? Isn't this the kind of approach that women want guys to use? Nope. It doesn't matter how many magazine articles are written declaring that women want guys who are their best friends. The reality is that when you take that approach, you are going to make yourself become a "non sexual entity" in her life and that doesn't bode well for you if you want to get her in the bedroom. The other thing that can happen that ends up being a bad thing is the moment that you make it clear that you were just trying to be her friend so that you can put the moves on her, she is going to feel deceived by you and that is not a good thing for her to conclude about you. It's much better to just be upfront about the fact that you like her and you want to be more than just a guy she grabs a cup of coffee with.
2. Guys will also make the mistake of waiting for the woman to be the one to make the first move.
This is something that a lot of men who are shy around women deal with, but it is not just shy guys, a lot of not so shy guys still make the mistake of waiting for the woman to make the first move. Feminism aside, the fact remains that women usually want the guy to make the first move and being able to do this is going to make you look like you know what you are doing when it comes to the physical aspects of a relationship and that is a good thing. You don't want to look like one of those guys who has absolutely no experience at all and you don't want to be so shy about making that first move that you wind up never making one at all.
3. Another mistake that men make when they do have the nerve to make the move is that they don't know how to pace things with a woman.
Most of the time, you are not going to be able to make her feel sexually attracted to you and then get her in the bedroom in the space of just a couple of minutes. So, there is no need to feel like you should rush things and really, if you want her to feel like she is really having a good experience with you, rushing her should be the last thing that you are doing. There is something to be said about being a guy who knows how to pace things just so and who knows that it takes a little more to get a woman aroused than just a couple of kisses. You need to really be sure that you are arousing her and that can take a little bit of time, so take all the time that you need so you know that you are giving her an experience she is going to think fondly of when she looks back on it.
4. Finally, most guys never really learn what they need to do in order to pleasure a woman.
You can't really imagine that a woman is going to be both sexually attracted and satisfied with you if you don't know the ins and the outs of being able to pleasure a woman and unfortunately, a lot of guys act as if they don't need to learn anything in this area. Well, if you really want to get a woman turned on and make her feel like you are the kind of guy she wants to be with physically, then being able to pleasure her has to be something that you are capable of doing. There is nothing wrong with realizing that there are some things that you might need to learn more about in order to really satisfy a woman and she'll probably be very grateful if you do take the time to learn those things.
