subject: How To Determine If She Really Likes You - 5 Tell Tale Signs Of Attraction [print this page] Most of the time, guys are worried about the things that they don't really have much to be worried about as far as attraction goes. They are caught up in worrying about all of the small things and they never take that step back that they need to take in order to look at the bigger picture. For example, most guys are caught up in finding out all that they can learn about attracting a woman, but they put almost no stock into the idea of figuring out how to determine if a woman really likes them.
If you can't spot a woman's signs of attraction, then all you are really left with is guessing whether or not she likes you and I'd have to say that most guys are not really good at the guessing game. Of course, most men go with the assumption that feels most comfortable to them, but that doesn't really serve you if you want to know for sure if a woman is attracted to you or not.
Here are 5 tell tale signs of attraction that women give off when they are at least curious (interested) in a guy for more than friendship:
1. She is going to talk about you to anyone that she can if you are someone she wants to date.
There are many reasons why women are going to do this. One reason is that they just want to get it off their chest. When a woman really likes a guy, talking about him is probably the first thing that they are going to do so if you know that a particular woman is talking about you (positively, of course) then that is going to be a good thing. The more she talks about you, the stronger her curiosity is and that is usually a pretty good indication that she is attracted to you and wants to be more than just your friend. When you find out that she wants to know the personal details (who you've dated in the past, whether or not you are currently single, etc), that means that you are pretty much someone she wants to date.
2. She is going to want to make excuses for having to talk to you.
Unless she is a really shy woman, then chances are good that if she really does like you, she is going to make as many excuses as she can to talk to you. She might come up with something silly to talk about, for example if she happens to be a co-worker she might make some small talk about work, but the point is that she is trying really hard to get in some interaction with you. As long as she is making it clear that she really does want to talk to you to the point where she will make up any excuse that she can just to get close to you, then you are probably good to go if you want to ask her out on a date.
3. She might have her friends try to become your friend.
This is something that women on the shy side will tend to do more than really outgoing women, but this is going to be another really good sign that she is attracted to you. If you notice that a lot of her friends or sometimes even just one of them is trying to become your friend, there is usually a reason for that. Sometimes it may just be a case of coincidence or it may be that she is really trying to hook you up with her friend, but most of the time it means that she really likes you and she is just too shy to come straight out and tell you and she feels more comfortable having one of her friends come over and befriend you so you become known to her social circle. This can also be an easy way for her to gain some insights into you, which of course is good if you want to date her.
4. You notice that she has to look her best when you come around.
This is one of my favorite signs because it almost always means that you are on the right track with her and she is really digging you. If you call her up and want to hang out with her and she needs a lot of time to get prepared or if she spots you coming and she has to do her hair or touch up her make up before you get there, you might as well assume that she is attracted to you. While there are some women who do this just because that is the way that they are, most women are only going to do this because they like you and they want to look their best to impress you. This is usually the point where you can not just get a date with a woman, you can also lean in to kiss her seductively if you want to take things fast with her and 9 times out of 10, she'll be cool with it.
5. She just can't stop smiling when you look her way.
This is another one of those signs of attraction women give that I really like to receive because it is another one that usually means that things can move pretty quickly. When you look her way and she breaks into a smile each and every time or she is smiling every time you greet her, then you can bet that she is attracted to you and most of the time you are going to come out a winner. This is another instance where you can make your move on her and she'll probably be cool with it, because that smile that she is showing is telling you exactly how you make her feel and when you make her feel that giddy, that usually means that she wants you as much more than just a friend.
