subject: When She Says That She Needs Some Time - You Need To Be Willing To Give It To Her [print this page] It's a common mistake that guys usually make when they are really eager about trying to win back an ex girlfriend. She tells them that she just needs to have some time before she makes a decision about reuniting and what do they do? They continue to try and prod her to get an answer. Doing that is akin to shooting yourself in the foot. When your ex girlfriend tells you that she needs some time, you have to be willing to give her that time, even when you feel like you just want to have her back in your life.
There are times when you need to make a move and there are times when you just need to hold back. This would be one of those times when holding back is going to end up proving to be the right move. If you can't do what she wants right now, what do you think she is going to think about the idea of getting back with you? She's probably going to assume that it won't work out.
DISTRACTIONS ARE GOOD AT TIMES LIKE THESE -
It's never fun to feel like you are waiting around for someone else to make a decision that is going to have an effect on you. However, that is kind of what you have to do in this situation. What's the remedy for that uneasy feeling that you are going to get from having to wait around like that? Distracting yourself in a positive way. You need to be doing things that are going to take your mind off of the issue. The more you allow yourself to think about your ex girlfriend and wonder about what decision she is going to make, the stronger of an urge you are going to get to try and come into contact with her.
PUTTING YOURSELF IN HER SHOES -
Another good thing to do when you are feeling like you just want to get in touch with her, is to try to put yourself in her shoes for a moment. Act as if you are the one who said that they needed time to think about things and it was your ex girlfriend who was prodding you for an answer. How would you like that? When the shoe is on the other foot and you put yourself in her situation, you are bound to see why it would be a bad thing to ignore what she wants and to try and force her to make a decision right away.
