subject: Save Marriage. Thrash Divorce [print this page] Save marriage from divorce before its too late. Heres how. When expectations are not met, most of the marriages become twisted. Your partner and you should draw up a list of important things you expect from one another, then after that, rework on it. When youre both ready and have accepted it, make sure to stick to the things that have been agreed upon. Making an adjustment is necessary to hold on your spouse and your marriage. Its one of the hardest thing a couple would encounter. Just try to settle any differences thru mutual concession, by finding what is known as the middle ground. Anger management is necessary here. Control your anger. Thinking and stopping before you respond is the thing to do. Communication is vital. If something is bothering you, you should tell your spouse about it, never assume that your partner knows whats bothering you (unless he/she is mind reader). If you really want to save marriage from divorce, both of you need to talk. Calmly speak and please refrain from pointing a finger because this would just worsen the problem. The best policy here is honesty. Just tell your partner what your feelings are right now. If you love your spouse, then tell them. Communicate your feelings and thoughts if you feel that the marriage is not what it should be. Truth and honesty is the foundation of a good marriage, so by telling your spouse how you feel, youre letting more of that in. Eventually, you could turn things around. No matter what point you are in right now, both of you just needs to hard and persistent. Nightly talks of working things out would slow mend the wounds of your dying marriage. Remember, problems would never be resolved if you dont speak up. Just like the famous line it takes two to tango, both of you have to work together to save marriage from divorce. Work together as a team; that is if you both of you really respect the marriage. The husband could clean up the kitchen while the wife cooks a meal, things like that. It is scientifically proven that, doing the household chores together do bring the couples closer, thus strengthening their bond. Conflicts are a good thing. Achieving a deeper level of intimacy in a relationship is really impossible without any conflicts. We are shaped through our close and often times, heated interactions with our spouses. You unintentionally do more harm than good when you run away from conflicts (though break up, etc). Another way to save marriage from divorce is to really handle conflicts. Sometime, both of you need to admit that marriage help is needed. Marriage seminars and marriage workshops could be utilized to help both of you through this difficult time. Marriage is commitment. When things start to get a little less rosy, sticking into your commitments goes a long way. I hope the things mentioned above would help you in even the smallest of ways. Have faith. Pray and good luck.
