subject: Tips to Save marriage [print this page] There are really a lot of things that you can do in order to save marraige. The marital problems definitely come in variety of forms and shapes. Usually the best way for you to tackle it will depend on how well you know the major cause of those problems. Nevertheless, whatever the cause of your marriage problem, divorce will never solve them and will never save your marriage. Divorce should only be considered if you have done everything you could to save your marriage and your love. Below are two tips that can help you in saving your marriage and restoring your happiness with the person you love most. First when trying to resolve a marital problem is to accept the fact that there is really a problem between you and your spouse. Often times, most couples do not notice that their relationship with each other is going real bad until they are about to both hit the dead end, only then they will try to salvage or just ignore and jump into divorce. Even though you can still save your marriage when it comes to this point by meeting with the right people or getting the right information, this will be a very hard task. If at first you both have accepted that you are moving in the opposite-non loving direction, then you can surely point out the ways on how you will address your problems. Furthermore, you should always adopt a very positive attitude in dealing with your marital problems to save marraige. Next tip is to try everything you could in accommodating and filling up your spouses shortcoming. You must always be the better half. Not all the times, your spouse can give full of everything, there are certain shortcomings that he or she may possess so you need to be patience and understand that the half of them is the things that only you can fill. When you marry your spouse, you promise to love him or her through everything that comes in your way. This means that you must also accept the fact that he or she is not perfect and not God. There may be some traits, habits, or anything that you will not like from him or her, but the fact that they are all part of him means that you already loved those shortcomings. It is just that sometimes when you are all stressed out; you forgot that those shortcomings make the whole him or her. Avoid unnecessary arguments and fights too. Generally, couples today who are in marital disputes find themselves looking for a marriage counselor in order to help them save marraige. Marriage counselors can help you in dealing with your marital problems if both of you are willing to work and resolve your issues. The marriage counselor plus positive attitude can really save your marriage and even make it much better that it was. However, going to any marriage counselor can cost you a lot but as far as money is concerned, it is all worth it when you eventually solved your marital problems and get back to the times that you all the way love each other.
