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subject: Dating Advice For Women: Rebound Dating Pro's And Con's [print this page]


Most people don't want to feel lonely and alone. That's why relationships exist, because God made us need another person to complete us. But what happens if your break up? Is it okay for you to jump the bandwagon and into another sugar daddy's arms?

I know that you probably have a lot of negative feelings right now, but going into a relationship just after one ended is not going to be fair, both to you and to your future rebound sugardaddie. Going into a rebound relationship stops you from fully thinking about things and where you stand with your feelings for your ex and for your future boyfriend.

Anyway, both men and women, can think that millionaire dating rebounds may be exciting and dangerous. Well, that's true. However, it is also true that most rebound relationships do indeed fail in the end, thus adding more hurt and pain to both parties. If you are in a rebound relationship, or thinking of getting into one, you ought to step back, and think and weigh things before you unnecessarily hurt yourself and another person:

Pro's:

Now, I know that some of you may get surprised at the fact that there are some pro's to rebound dating. But actually, there are since there's nothing in this world that is absolutely evil or absolutely good. So here some of pro's

1. It takes your mind off your ex. Enough said. Rebound millionaire dating relationships' first advantage is that it takes your mind off the pain of your previous relationship because you now have someone new.

2. It keeps the loneliness at bay. Being with someone new brings a giddy kind of excitement, especially with the "just into a new relationship" feel in the air.

3. It helps your self-worth and self-confidence. Of course, it would. You now have someone who likes you, and this is a big plus in the self-confidence and self-esteem bit because everyone likes the fact that they are being liked.

Con's:

And of course, we have the con's to have a rebound relationship with your sugardaddie:

1. Emotionally, you are not there yet. Especially if you just came from a serious relationship, you may not be emotionally ready yet to take on another relationship. This would be unfair to your sugar daddie that you hooked up with and also unhealthy for you. What you need after a break-up is time for you to grieve a bit, heal yourself, and then when you're ready to move on, find someone great! You may also need to evaluate where the previous relationship went south so that you may resolve it during your new relationship.

2. You may find that you have nothing common with your sugar daddie beyond the initial attraction. And this is not good at all. Attraction is not enough to sustain a good relationship because you do need to find things common between you two.

3. Self-confidence and self-worth do not come from an outside source. Note, that the word "self" is a conjunction of those words. It needs to come from yourself, and no one else can give you that.

by: Andrea Carless




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