subject: What Does It Take For You To Get More Attention From Women? [print this page] When you just are not getting the kind of attention that you'd hope to be getting from women on a regular basis, it can really shake your confidence. It can make you feel like no matter what you do, you just were not meant to be one of those guys who actually had an easy time getting women to notice you. I know what that feels like and I know that it can really make you wonder why it has to be that way. I also know that it really doesn't have to be that way as long as you are willing to change the way that you do things just a bit.
So, what does it really take for a guy like you to get that attention from women that you are craving inside to get?
1) It takes having a little bit of resilience.
Being resilient is the name of the game if you want to improve your success with the opposite sex. You have to be able to pick yourself back up when you get knocked down. That may mean that you approach another woman at that party after the first one doesn't seem to want to give you the time of day. It may mean that you need to go back out to the club next weekend if you don't happen to meet anyone this weekend. The more resilient that you are, the more likely it is that you will finally get to that point where you don't have to struggle to get female attention.
2) It takes having a little bit of pizazz.
You can't be so average wherever you go that you just blend into the scenery and no one even knows that you are there. You personality has to have a little bit of pizazz so that you can both attract attention and be memorable at the same time. You don't want to end up getting a little bit of attention from a woman at a party and then have her totally forget who you are when you call her up a few days later.
3) It takes social skill.
No one wants to hang around the guy that no one else wants to hang around. So, if you are trying to get women to notice you, then you have to be somewhat sociable. You can't be so standoffish in social settings that you don't even look like you'd be cool to be around. You need to look like someone that is worth checking out, someone who is worth getting to know.
