subject: My Ex Boyfriend Hates Me And Made Me Cry [print this page] I know how you feelI know how you feel. Without doubt I know simply how you feel. It is a dark, bitter spot you are in. Virtually like a narrow vent in which you can barely breathe and the light at the end has gone away. From my own struggles, let me tell you this, you can forget the guy quickly, your life will get easier, you will see someone new and you need more than valuable of both relief and passion.
Do you understand why you will never seem to get over him? Don't feel sick that you are yet to get over ex boyfriend. Everbody says time is the greatest healer, and while that may have some validity to it, it?s a guideline, not a guaranty. And I understand that when you experience a break up, it seems like the people you care give you an unsaid time-limit in which to get over a guy. They will be kind and sympathy awhile, but when you?ve made to the period where they think you should be over it, they appear to stop heeding. And this just causes you feel lonely in your feelings and look-alike a loser for not being able to get past it sooner.
Everybody mends at their own tempo. 18 weeks may look forver to one person, but for you, the bruises are still fresh and the scratches still severe. And it does not count that you never had a traditional 'ex relationship' because physically and emotionally, the attachment between you two was intense and your feelings and agitation ran very high. You are not a loser. You are a human being. Visualize that, admit that.