subject: Advice On How To Get Over The Hurt [print this page] It's hard!It's hard!. for a fact I realize exactly how you you're feeling. It is a dark, tragic situation you are in. Virtually like a close cave that you can seldom take a breath and your all hope has vanished. From my own encounter, I'll tell you this, you can get over your exboyfriend quickly, things will get well, you will meet somebody responsible and you need more than valuable of both relief and love.
You may ask yourself why you dont want get over exboyfriend? Do not look ill that you are still not over this guy. Many states time is the best therapist, and while that may have some actuality to it, it?s a rule of thumb, not a warranty. And I agree that if you go through a breakup, it looks like the people you love give you an implicit time-limit in which to get over a guy. They will be tolerant and agreement awhile, but when you?ve reached the place where they believe you should be over it, they appear to quit heeding. And this only makes you feel exclusive in your emotions and look-alike a loser for not recover from it sooner.
Everybody heals at their own rate. Seven weeks may look blue moon to one individual, but for you, the bruises are still fresh and the scars still painful. It's not an issue if this is your first time been broken by 'ex relationship' because it hurts inside, the attachment you had was strong and your love and emotions ran very precious. You are not a loser. You are a great person. Realize that, live with that.