subject: How Do I Cope With Sexual Abuse [print this page] I have been where you areI have been where you are. Hard to believe but I realize simply how you feel. It is a dark, painful situation you are in. Nearly like a close vent whereby you can hardly respire and your success has disappeared. From my own affairs, I'll first say, you can forget him quickly, your life will get well, you will see someone mature and you are more than worth of both well-being and passion.
Have you ever thought why you will never seem to get over him? Don't look unpleasant that you are yet to get over this guy. Everbody states time is the greatest cure, and while that may have some facts to it, it?s a guideline, not a guarantee. And I agree that if you experience a break up, it seems like the people of import to you give you an unexpressed time-limit in which to forget a guy. They will be gentle and understanding for a while, but when you?ve passed the level where they think you must be over it, they appear to stop hearing. And this only makes you feel unsocial in your feelings and like a loser for not being able to get past it earlier.
Everyone cures at his or her own tempo. Five weeks may feel forver to one person, but for you, the hurts are still clean and the marks still traumatic. And it does not matter if you never been in a 'boyfriend or girlfriend relationship' because it bothers inside, the bond you had was strong and your feelings and anger ran very strong. You are not a loser. You are a human being. Envision that, admit that.
