subject: Help I WANT TO WIN OVER MY EX BOYFRIEND BUT HOW [print this page] I have been where you areI have been where you are. More than anyone I recognise exactly how you you're feeling. It is a bad, bitter situation you are in. Almost like a narrow tunnel whereby you can hardly respire and your all hope has gone away. From my individual experiences, I'll first say, you can forget your ex boyfriend fast, your life will get better, you will meet somebody with respect and you need more than valuable of both joy and love.
You may ask yourself why you cannot get over him? Do not feel badly that you are still not over ex boyfriend. Everyone says time is the best therapist, and while that may be true, it?s a guideline, not a guaranty. And I know that when you experience a breakup, it seems like the people you honor give you an quiet time-limit in which to get over a guy. They will be forgiving and understanding awhile, but when you?ve achieved the point where they believe you must be over it, they seem to quit listening. And this just makes you feel unsocial in your feelings and like a failure for not getting used to it sooner.
Everybody cures at his or her own rate. Four weeks may feel long time to one person, but for you, the injuries are still fresh and the marks still traumatic. It's not an issue if this is your first time been abused by 'ex relationship' because physically and emotionally, the attachment you had was strong and your love and rage ran very strong. You are not a failure. You are a human being. Understand that, go for that.
