subject: How Do You Get Over Your First Love [print this page] I have been where you areI have been where you are. More than anyone I acknowledge merely how you feel. It is a dark, awful situation you are in. Virtually like a narrow trough that you can seldom respire and your success has vanished. From my individual ex relationship, I'll first say, you can get over him fast, your life will get easier, you will meet someone responsible and you need more than valuable of both hope and passion.
You may ask yourself why you don t want get over him? Never look unhappy that you are yet to get over this guy. Many states time is the greatest healer, though that may be true, it?s a rule of thumb, not a guaranty. And I know that if you experience a breakup, it seems like the people you value give you an unsaid time-limit in which to forget him. They will be gracious and agreement for a while, but when you?ve hit the level where they think you should be over it, they appear to stop heeding. And this only causes you feel lonely in your feelings and like a loser for not get over it sooner.
Everyone heals at his or her own tempo. Five weeks may feel blue moon to one individual, but for you, the bruises are still fresh and the scratches still traumatic. And it does not matter if you never been in a 'boyfriend or girlfriend relationship' because physically and emotionally, the bond you had was strong and your feelings and sorrow ran very deep. You are not a failure. You are a great person. Understand that, live with that.
