subject: Cheating Boyfriend - What To Do [print this page] I have been where you areI have been where you are. Certainly I acknowledge just how you feel. It is a dark, unsuitable situation you are in. Almost like a close vent in which you can seldom breathe and the light at the end has vanished. From my own struggles, let me tell you this, you can get over your exboyfriend instantly, things will get well, you will meet somebody who is real and you are more than worthy of both high spirits and passion.
Have you ever thought why you cannot get over him? Do not feel crappy that you are yet to get over this guy. Everyone says time is the best therapist, though that may have some reality to it, it?s a guideline, not a warranty. And I agree that if you go through a breakup, it seems like the people around you give you an hinted time-limit in which to forget him. They will be forgiving and agreement awhile, but when you?ve reached the period where they think you should be over it, they appear to quit listening. And this alone makes you feel lonely in your feelings and like a failure for not getting used to it sooner.
Everyone cures at their own pace. Seven months may feel long time to one person, but for you, the injuries are still clean and the scratches still traumatic. It's not an issue if you never been in a 'ex relationship' because physically and emotionally, the attachment you had was deep and your feelings and emotions ran very strong. You are not a failure. You are a more intelligent than your ex know. Empathize that, accept that.
