subject: I Keep Thinking Of My Ex When I Love My Boyfriend [print this page] I have been where you areI have been where you are. More than anyone I acknowledge merely how you feel. It is a bad, ill situation you are in. Nearly like a close hollow in which you can hardly take a breath and your success has disappeared. From my own struggles, let me tell you this, you can forget the guy fast, things will get improved, you will meet somebody hotter and you are more than suited of both contentment and love.
You may ask yourself why you cannot get over him? Do not feel ill that you are still not over ex boyfriend. Everyone states time is the best healer, and while that may be true, it?s a guideline, not a guaranty. And I know that if you experience a break up, it sounds like the people you care give you an silent time-limit in which to forget a guy. They will be gracious and agreement for a while, but when you?ve passed the point where they believe you should be over it, they seem to quit hearing. And this just causes you feel withdrawn in your feelings and look-alike a failure for not being able to get past it sooner.
Everybody cures at his or her own tempo. Five weeks may look long time to one person, but for you, the hurts are still clean and the scars still traumatic. And it does not matter that you never had a traditional 'boyfriend or girlfriend relationship' because physically and emotionally, the attachment you had was strong and your love and sadness ran very strong. You are not a loser. You are a great person. Realise that, live with that.