subject: How Do I Get Back To My Old Self After Break Up [print this page] I know how you feelI know how you feel. Hard to believe but I know simply how you you're feeling. It is a bad, unsuitable situation you are in. Almost like a narrow tunnel whereby you can seldom respire and your success has disappeared. From my individual affairs, I'll tell you this, you can get over the man quickly, things will get warmer, you will meet someone hotter and you are more than precious of both happiness and love.
Do you understand why you cannot get over? Do not feel ill that you are still not over this guy. Everyone says time is the greatest cure, and while that may be true, it?s a guideline, not a guaranty. And I acknowledge that when you go through a breakup, it sounds like the people you care give you an unsaid time-limit in which to get over him. They will be kind and agreement for a while, but when you?ve achieved the level where they think you must be over it, they appear to stop listening. And this alone causes you feel withdrawn in your feelings and look-alike a failure for not being able to get past it sooner.
Everyone heals at his or her own pace. 18 weeks may look like ages to one person, but for you, the bruises are still fresh and the scars still painful. And it does not matter that you never had a traditional 'boyfriend or girlfriend relationship' because it strain inside, the attachment between you two was deep and your affection and agitation ran very wild. You are not a failure. You are a lovely and strong. Visualize that, swallow that.
