subject: How To Live With Narcissistic Spouse [print this page] I have been where you areI have been where you are. More than anyone I recognise exactly how you feel. It is a dark, tough spot you are in. Almost like a narrow hollow whereby you can seldom respire and your all hope has vanished. From my personal experiences, I'll tell you this, you can get over your exboyfriend now, things will get improved, you will meet someone who is real and you are more than worth of both high spirits and love.
You may ask yourself why you will never seem to get over him? Do not look unhappy that you are still not over this guy. Everbody says time is the greatest cure, and while that may have some facts to it, it?s a rule of thumb, not a guarantee. And I realize that when you experience a breakup, it seems like the people who protect you give you an unexpressed time-limit in which to get over a guy. They will be tolerant and sympathy for a while, but when you?ve achieved the place where they think you should be over it, they appear to quit hearing. And this simply makes you feel unsocial in your emotions and look-alike a failure for not being able to get past it sooner.
Everybody heals at his or her own tempo. 18 months may look blue moon to one individual, but for you, the hurts are still clean and the scratches still painful. And it does not matter that you never had a traditional 'boyfriend or girlfriend relationship' because it strain inside, the bond between you two was intense and your passion and agitation ran very bad. You are not a failure. You are a human being. Image that, accept that.
