subject: Anxiety Over Visiting A Ex Boyfriend For A Week. [print this page] I have been where you areI have been where you are. People who have been in this situation and I recognize exactly how you feel. It is a bad, ill situation you are in. Nearly like a narrow hollow whereby you can barely respire and your all trust has vanished. From my own ex relationship, I'll tell you this, you can forget your ex immediately, your life will get better, you will meet someone different and you are more than worthy of both contentment and love.
Do you understand why you cannot get over? Never feel evil that you are still not over this guy. Everyone states time is the best therapist, though that may be true, it?s a rule of thumb, not a warranty. And I know that if you experience a breakup, it looks like the people you care give you an silent time-limit in which to get over ex boyfriend. They will be forgiving and sympathy awhile, but when you?ve hit the place where they think you should be over it, they appear to stop hearing. And this alone makes you feel unsocial in your emotions and look-alike a loser for not getting used to it earlier.
Everyone mends at his or her own pace. Eleven months may feel long time to one individual, but for you, the bruises are still clean and the scars still severe. And it does not count if this is your first time been victimized by 'ex relationship' because it troubles inside, the attachment you had was strong and your passion and sorrow ran very deep. You are not a loser. You are a human being. Realize that, live with that.
