subject: I Dumped My Boyfriend-How Do I Get Him Back? [print this page] Getting an ex back is hard if you were the one being dumped. But imagine how you would feel if you were the one who did the dumping? That is the position that Aimee found herself in and she had to go about getting an ex back. Aimees so called friend Renee told her that her boyfriend Jaime had been sleeping with another woman. Without verifying the information or even asking Jaime about it, Aimee confronted Jaime and accused him of having an affair. This took Jaime by complete surprise because he had no inkling that the rumor was circulating, and he didnt do a good job of defending himself. Aimee unceremoniously dumped him. A few days later, Aimee found out that Renee had been lying for her own jealous, petty reasons. Now Aimee was in a quandary. Getting an ex back was important to her, but she also wanted to save face. Aimee called up Jaime and explained what had happened. But Jaime was in no mood to take her back. Aimee had hurt him by not trusting him and not even talking things over with him. Getting an ex back took all of Aimees wiles. LEARN HOW YOU CAN GET YOUR EX BACK WITHIN A WEEK First of all, Aimee wrote Jaime a long letter of apology. She took responsibility for what happened and promised that it would never happen again. She reminded Jaime that they had a long history together and that they had shared some beautiful times. She said that she didnt want to throw all of that away. She told him that the reason she acted the way she did was because she loved him and couldnt stand the though of his being with another woman. The thought of losing him forever was painful. After she had mailed the letter, she didnt bother him with constant texts or phone calls. She figured that getting an ex back after a situation like this one required that she give Jaime his space. When she did run into Jaime, she was as nice as she could be. She worked positive memories into the conversation casually. She didnt apologize any further though. She had told him both in person and in writing that she was sorry and let it go at that. One day, Aimee got tickets for Jaimes favorite band which was in town for one concert only. She asked Jaime to go with her just as friends. In this way, she opened the door to a future relationship without crowding him. Getting an ex back after you have behaved badly and dumped him is difficult. Not only do you have the embarrassment of having to apologize, but you almost have to start from scratch again on the relationship. Rebuilding the trust is a key component in this period. Jaime and Aimee did eventually get back together. Jaime came to see that Aimees outburst was the act of a jealous woman who deeply loved him. He saw it as a mistake that they could both grow from. Their relationship became stronger than ever. Aimee took the right approach to getting an ex back.
