subject: How Do I Get Over Him Please Help [print this page] I have been where you areI have been where you are. People who have been in this situation and I know simply how you you're feeling. It is a dark, terrible place you are in. Virtually like a narrow hole that you can seldom take a breath and your all hope has disappeared. From my personal struggles, let me tell you this, you can forget the man now, things will get improved, you will see somebody responsible and you are more than precious of both contentment and passion.
You may ask yourself why you dont want get over exboyfriend? Never feel unhappy that you are still not over this guy. Everyone states time is the best healer, though that may have some ground to it, it?s a rule of thumb, not a warranty. And I recognize that if you experience a breakup, it sounds like the people you love give you an wordless time-limit in which to get over a guy. They will be hospitable and understanding for a while, but when you?ve passed the level where they believe you must be over it, they seem to quit listening. And this only makes you feel lonely in your feelings and like a failure for not recover from it sooner.
Everybody heals at their own pace. Three months may feel long time to one person, but for you, the bruises are still clean and the marks still severe. It's not an issue if you never been in a 'boyfriend or girlfriend relationship' because it bothers inside, the attachment you had was strong and your affection and sadness ran very strong. You are not a loser. You are a human being. Realize that, swallow that.
