subject: Show Him You Won't Wait And Watch Your Ex Boyfriend Come Running Back [print this page] When your man says he needs a time-out from the relationship, his male ego causes him to think that you will put your life on hold and patiently wait until he is willing to honor you with his presence again. He expects to be able to do his thing, maybe even date a few girls, and you will be sitting right there by the phone waiting for his call. You do not need to take this kind of treatment. There are ways to flatten his ego and make him the one that is desperate to get his ex back. One of the best tactics is to show him you won't wait and watch your ex boyfriend come running back.
The first thing you need to do is get your emotions under control. He is expecting you to be crying and begging him to come back on your knees. He is looking for you to be calling at all hours of the day and night, screaming that you cannot live without him. He will check his email and text, looking for tons of messages all pleading for another chance. You cannot let him do this to you. Show him that you are a strong, mature, and dignified woman. The way to put a kink in his little game is to ignore him completely. Go on with your life as if you never knew him. Appear to accept the breakup and go out with friends and have a good time.
The reason you are so desperate to get your ex back is that you are afraid of losing him forever. If you turn things around and make him fear that he is losing you, he will become desperate too. All men want what they cannot have. When he was sure that he had you, it was easy for him to toy with your heart to satisfy his ego. But, show him you won't wait and watch your ex boyfriend come running back. Once you have him chasing you again, do not be too available. When he calls, let him get your recorded message. If he emails or sends text messages, do not answer them. You are not seeking revenge here, but you have to make him see that you are someone to be respected.
After he has been calling for a few days and getting a recorded message, you should call him back and tell him you noticed he has been calling, emailing, and sending a lot of text messages and you wondered if he was alright. Tell him you would have answered him sooner but you have been so busy. At this point he may say that he would like to talk to you. Put him off again by saying this is not a good time but you will call him back and arrange a time and place in a few days. This way you are maintaining control and you have shown your ex boyfriend that you won't wait and he has come running back.
Show Him You Won't Wait And Watch Your Ex Boyfriend Come Running Back
