subject: Boyfriend Not Over His Ex. HELP [print this page] It's hard!It's hard!. More than anyone I recognize simply how you feel. It is a dark, tough spot you are in. Almost like a narrow vent that you can hardly respire and your success has gone away. From my own encounter, I'll tell you this, you can forget the man fast, things will get better, you will see somebody hotter and you demand more than valuable of both good humor and love.
Do you understand why you cannot get over? Never feel unhappy that you are still not over this guy. Everbody says time is the best cure, and while that may have some actuality to it, it?s a guideline, not a warranty. And I know that if you go through a break up, it appears like the people you know give you an hinted time-limit in which to forget ex boyfriend. They will be forgiving and agreement for a while, but when you?ve reached the level where they think you must be over it, they seem to stop hearing. And this alone makes you feel withdrawn in your emotions and look-alike a failure for not being able to get past it earlier.
Everyone mends at their own pace. Ten weeks may feel like ages to one person, but for you, the injuries are still clean and the marks still painful. It's not an issue that you never had a traditional 'ex relationship' because it bothers inside, the attachment between you two was deep and your love and sadness ran very excessive. You are not a failure. You are a human being. Visualize that, swallow that.
