subject: Signs A Relationship Wont Work [print this page] If you are in a relationship or getting into one, there are a few signs that the relationship wont work. These signs can be obvious and if you notice these, there is a high chance the relationship will not work. The main signs that a relationship wont work is when the ex is still involved, any lying that occurs, interest in others and a nonexistent relationship with their friends.
A major important factor to a successful relationship is having a relationship with your partners friends. If you cannot stand their friends or spending time with them, it is going to be very difficult to peruse the relationship. You may think this isnt an important factor because you dont have to be around their friends, but it makes it awkward when things are planned and you will have to spend time with them. It can be worse if they are very close with their friends and interested in you making a close friendship with them too.
If your partner is constantly showing interest towards others when you are around, this is one of the signs that the relationship wont work. If they do it now, they will continue to do it and it will make you feel insecure. Your partner should make you feel like you are the only one in the room they are interested in without having to say it.
In some circumstances, it is impossible to erase the ex out of the equation. If your partner has children, the ex is going to be part of the relationship but this isnt always a problem. The problem with the ex is when your partner has no ties to their ex but they are still getting in the way of the relationship. More often than not this means there are still feelings there and always will be. If the ex is still in the equation after telling your partner you are not happy with it, the relationship wont last much longer as arguments will start to occur.
Everybody lies at points in their lie, and sometimes they can be necessary. However, it is when the lying becomes extreme to lying about where you are or who the person is that keep texting you. If your partner is lying like this, they are hiding something and the relationship is in jeopardy. If you notice this lying from the beginning it is best to get out before it gets worse.