subject: 8 Way To Make A Woman Crave Sex [print this page] Its very common for women to have a low libido or to suddenly lose their sex drive. It doesnt matter at which stage of life theyre in it can happen at any time and even with the love of her life. The good news is that in most cases, the problem is only temporary. So, how do you fix it?
Find out the cause
Before you can do anything to fix a problem, you need to find out whats causing it. Is it you or is it her? If youre a bad lover, we have plenty of tips to improve your performance in the bedroom. When the problem is hers (whether psychological or physical) this may be harder to fix on your own.
How do you know which one it is? Well, if youre long time lovers and your partner has suddenly shied away from sex, its unlikely to be because youre bad in bed. If its a new romance, it may be harder to tell. If you dont want to confront her yet about the problem, this article provides some great ways on making women love sex again.
What will send her wild?
Most women who have low libido can still have orgasms. So if the problem isnt climaxing, youve still got opportunity to get her excited about sex. Even where the orgasms have disappeared, they can be brought back! Heres how:
Smelling Good women are drawn to men who smell good. A seductive masculine scent can really play on a womans senses. Women can be attracted to even ugly men if they smell good. The way you smell (a new deodorant/aftershave) can be a powerful aphrodisiac.
Making Her Laugh its best to be light hearted about the situation. Dont have sex on the agenda all the time. Focus on her and get her thoughts away from the pressures of sex. The best way to do this is to make her laugh.
Spice up Your Wardrobe just like your scent, this can be a powerful way to attract a woman, even if youve been together for years. The clothes you wear say a lot about yourself. They can either demand respect and admiration or they can say Im a loser, I dont care about how I look, which means I dont care about you.
Work on Your Body its true that women prefer men with masculine bodies (whether for long term relationships or just to have casual sex with). Having a more muscular physique will not only make her more attracted to you, but will make you appear more socially and physically dominant (which is another trait that women go wild for). It can also spark jealousy when other women look at you which make many women want sex.
Play on Jealousy you can use this to your advantage. When youve followed the above tips and made yourself look, smell and feel good about yourself, women will be naturally attracted to you. She will notice the attention youre getting lately and may want to remind you why youre still with her by sprucing up the sex. Dont be cruel with the jealousy factor. Never approach the women yourself and dont go out of your way to try to make her jealous. You might end up hurting her and then youll never get laid.
A Sexy Book or Movie youll find that most women arent really turned on by pornography or any form of hard core sex movie. A classy movie with a steamy sex scene is more likely to get her in the mood. Or even buying her a novel where she can read the scenes being played out step-by-step can really turn on a woman.
Abstinence women still get horny even if theyve got a low libido. At the start of your plan, you might want to just hold off on sex for a few weeks (unless she wants it earlier). After this amount of time and with your playing at her senses the whole time, you could end up with one wild night on your hands.
Research Your Sex Moves even if youve been in the game long enough, theres always room for improvement, especially when it comes to pleasing women. If youre not having sex often, you should have plenty of time on your hands to look up how to please a woman in bed, during foreplay and cunnilingus. Get some moves that will really get her screaming I Need Sex!