subject: How To Attract A Girlfriend When You Are Desperate For One [print this page] Feeling like you are desperate for a girlfriend is not all that uncommon. Usually when men feel like they are really eager or desperate to find a woman to date, they also find that it is harder than they expected. They seem to find that women seem to be turned off by them, even when they feel like they are doing all of the things that they need to do to impress a woman. If you are feeling like you are desperate to attract a girlfriend and you don't seem to be having any luck at all right now, pay close attention. There is probably a good reason for that being the way that it is for you right now.
You should know that being desperate for a girlfriend is not the way that you are going to actually get one. When you feel that way, you DO tend to turn off women and that is because of the simple fact that desperate guys are not all that appealing to most females. Most women don't want to date a guy who seems to be having a hard time getting a girlfriend.
Here are some tips that you can use to turn things around and actually end up with a girlfriend if you are desperate to find one:
1) Desperation can stem from feeling isolation, so make sure that you are actively socializing with friends as well as with single women.
Feeling like you are kind of socially isolated for whatever reason is one of the more common things that lead men to feeling like they are desperate to be with someone. Like I said, you don't want to give off that vibe to a woman, so you need to find a way to get rid of that feeling. Hanging out with friends and having an active social life is one of the best things that you can do to get over feeling like you need to have someone. And, by actively hanging out with single women, you can give yourself some positive experiences that you can draw on to help build your confidence.
2) Don't just look for women to approach you, you need to do the approaching.
I find that a lot of men who complain about not meeting women don't really make any approaches. It's almost as if they expect that a woman is supposed to approach them, and that's just not the way that it pans out most of the time. Most of the time, it is the guy who has to make that first move and that's what you need to do if you are looking to have more success meeting women.
3) You need to be able to make a woman feel like you are going to be the guy who will show her a good time.
You can't expect a woman to want to date you if she thinks that being around you is going to be boring. Boring is not a good thing if you are trying to attract women, so you have to learn to be engaging enough and fun enough that she automatically gets the impression that you are going to be the kind of guy she can have a fun time with.
