subject: How Women Can Appeal To The Opposite Sex [print this page] There's an age old question that has fuelled industries and bothered members of either gender for generations. How does one attract the opposite sex? What cues does one look for in a mate? Is one sending out the correct signals? Today, the morass of the dating world could be a bit clearer for the women of the world. It is time to demystify what men find sexually attractive while dating women.
In a word, for a man, the eyes have it. In general, men rely far more on visual stimulation than females in terms of sexual attraction. Scientific studies have shown that the more symmetrical appearance a woman has the more physically attractive she is to a potential mate. One must note that it does not mean that one must look like a model to attract men. The only thing one needs to do is play up their best assets because body parts mirror other parts of the body. For example, if one has full lips one can accentuate the fullness of said part by utilizing a shade of lipstick that reddens the lips, This means that blood flow and arousal are heightened in more than one intimate area. Generally, people flush in more than one area when aroused so, by playing this aspect up one can subconsciously cue a man's sexual attraction. This tip goes beyond subtle body cues into the basic area of presentation.
A woman who is pulled together looks confident and seems to take pride in her appearance. Dressing for the occasion, whether it is a formal gathering or a sporting event in appropriate gear shows that one knows how to access a situation and prepare for it adequately. There is a directness in that approach that a man can find appealing in a date. Directness in communicating a situation goes beyond visual cues for people of the male persuasion.
One major difference between male and female manners of communicating is directness. Females tend to address issues in abstract terms, considering more of the peripheral sensory information than a man might. A man thinks in terms of a contained situation that can be measured and logistically plotted out. In terms, one point leads to the next point or could lead to these possibilities. One of the most important things to know for a female is what one wants out of a potential outing from a male. Knowing what one wants shows somebody who can access a situation and make a clear choice about it. When getting to know someone, this can be a key factor between a success and a loss. As always, the most important tip is to be oneself and project winning confidence.
