subject: How To Get My Ex Back From A New Girlfriend [print this page] Life's full of more than it's share of highs and lows, that is a fact of life. And being in a cheerful relationship happens to be one of many ups. Life is good, you and your boyfriend are really getting along so flawlessly, and everything just feels so right when you're with him. But then the unimaginable happens and you find out that he's leaving you. This is also a perfect example of one of the downs in life. To make things even worse, your ex boyfriend is actually spending time with another woman, and word has it he's completely happy. No matter what really happened, you are now thinking of how to get my ex back.
Before making a move of any type you will have to do a couple of things. Initially you must take a deep breath and have a look at your self in the mirror and ask your self if you genuinely want him back. Take some time and do not hurry this final decision. Try not to use your emotions here, there is always the chance you only think you want him back because you were dumped. Is it possible that the only reason you desire him back is because he's with yet another woman? Tell the truth, only you can answer that question. Second, should you arrive at the conclusion that you actually want him back, you must be prepared for some work, but it's entirely possible.
One of the first things that you must do is to provide him a bit of time without having you in his life, there's always a high probability he's with the other girl because he is on the rebound from you. And he doesn't love her as much as he thinks he does, and he will tire of her. nonetheless it does take time for a guy to understand that they do not care for the woman they are with. If you move to quickly and don't give him sufficient time, you'll catch him at the point when he feels the most strongly for his new love. By providing it enough time you're giving him time to come to his senses and a chance to realize his emotions for you.
Now, there's something which may complicate this challenge if you want to win back your ex girlfriend. And that is likely to be his new girlfriend. If you're able to get him alone, there is a very good chance that she won't ever let that happen. But that's not the bad news, and this you can use for your own advantage. All you need to do is just show him that you're more mature then his new girlfriend. But regardless of what you do don't get linked to a fight with the new girlfriend even if you think you are right and may win, you will lose in the end.
Whenever you get a chance to talk to him, do it on a friendly level. Do not start spilling your guts on how sorry you are and how much you want him back. You may think about doing that, but reject that temptation. Remain encouraging and positive, and simply ask how he is doing. Don't say bad things about his new girlfriend, as that will only make him get defensive.
Giving it time and doing the right things are the keys to how to win back an ex-boyfriend. Remember, it won't always be easy, but it is possible, and if you love him it'll be worthwhile.
