subject: Texting Your Ex Girlfriend - Is It A Good Sign That She Is Responding? [print this page] One of the worst things that you can do to yourself when you are trying to win back an ex girlfriend is to give yourself false hope. To make yourself believe that things are headed in the right direction when they really are not. When you are texting your ex girlfriend back and forth, it can be easy to assume that this definitely means that you are on the right track with her. However, as plenty of men later find out - that is not necessarily the case. Just because you are sending her texts and she is sending them back, it does not necessarily mean that you are going to be able to win her back.
It's all about the context of the texting.
Plenty of men find themselves becoming a woman's texting pal and that does not mean that she is attracted to them, it can just as easily mean that she just likes to have someone that she can send a message to and they are going to send one right back. It can help to make her feel good about herself, but that does not mean that she is definitely attracted to that guy or that she will be. So, if you and your ex are doing a lot of texting with one another, you have to look at the context of it.
Are you flirting with her and most importantly - is she flirting back with you?
This is another area where guys get it wrong when they are texting a woman, including their ex girlfriend. Their messages will be on the flirty side, while hers are not really that flirty at all. But, since their desire is for things to be flirtatious, they kind of think that it is a two way flirting game. If it really is, then that is a good sign.
However, if she is just being kind of "matter of fact" when she is texting you back and you are really the only one that is flirting, that is not a good sign at all. It means that you are really just someone to talk to, or really, someone to text when no one else is around.
You don't want to be the guy she is communicating with just because there is no one else around. You want to be the guy she is communicating with because she is attracted to you. So, just because she is responding, don't take that as a guarantee that things are headed in the right direction with her. It could just mean that she has no one else to talk to at that moment and you are just someone who is "there."
