subject: Calling Your Man - How To Make The Right Moves When Contacting Him [print this page] Have you ever had a guy give you the "I'll call you" line and wondered when you were going to hear from him again? Have you ever waited by the phone for that cute guy to ring you and give you some assurance of interest? Have you found yourself in the nerve racking position of wondering whether or not you should just ring him and get it over with? If you are tired of waiting by the phone and are ready to take action, you are about to find out what you can do about it...
The first thing to keep in mind if where the relationship is right now. If it is in the beginning stages, you need to wait and see if he is going to take the initiative to call you. If not, then you may find yourself chasing him for the rest of the relationship or until be bolts on you. Remember that a man needs his space, especially if he is not sure about what he wants your place to be in his life. While it can be frustrating when guy waits for days to call you, a man who gives you space is well worth the wait.
Second, let him leave you a message every now and then. And don't be too eager to return his call. Just make sure that you do if you really want him in your life. However, if you make yourself to available you may end up setting a pace in the relationship which you will have to tone down later. In a new relationship it is a habit for us to really indulge in the beginning and have to fight for our space when things begin to settle down. Better to set the right pace up and front and enjoy the extra time apart.
Third, be careful not to talk to him on the phone for too long. A funny thing begins to happen if you really connect over the phone and are not that comfortable in person. When you are in person you may be expecting the same level of comfort and be disappointed when it does not show up. Always make a suggestion or hint to meet in person and focus on really getting to know him. That way you become more familiar with his body language and become more comfortable around him.
Once you have done this for some time, the questions about calling guys should stop and the relationship will begin to take on a life of its own. Then you will no longer have to.
