subject: Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back By Way Of Separation Albeit Momentary [print this page] You may think that to get my ex girlfriend back, you must beg, grovel and get down on your knees - sans the ring - to ask for her forgiveness and, hopefully, her acceptance. This is the most common scenario shown on romantic comedy movies so you probably concluded that you must also embarrass yourself in front of your ex as well as your family and friends. The thing is life is so different from real life.
Women like confident men who know their own worth as well as who know the value of the opposite sex in their lives. If you beg, grovel and get down on your knees, you are not exactly being the confident man your ex girlfriend will want to reconcile with. You are killing your opportunities to get your ex girlfriend back to the point where even an amicable final separation may not even be possible.
So, what can you do? We suggest keeping your distance, letting things cool, and giving your ex girlfriend space. Separation can be good for reconciliation mainly because you can give each other the time and space to think things through, to put things into proper perspective, and perhaps to crazily miss each other's company.
During your separation from your ex girlfriend, you should work on yourself, too. Keep in mind that it takes two to start, maintain and end a relationship so you must accept your responsibility in the breakup and, hopefully, in the subsequent reconciliation.
To get your ex boyfriend back, you should become a better person - not another person whom your ex will not recognize as the man she loved but a better version of the man she can love once again. Clean up your act in both the physical and psychological manner especially in the areas where your ex may have indicated as requiring improvement. You will even finally agree with her that, indeed, you have to clean up your act not just for her but, more importantly, for yourself.
After a sufficient time of separation, which can range anywhere from several days to several weeks, you can then take further action. We suggest taking each step as slowly as necessary so much so that it feels like you are courting your ex girlfriend. Going too fast in your attempts at reconciliation may very well sabotage your efforts to get your ex girlfriend back.
