subject: How To Tell If Your Ex Wants You Back? [print this page] Is your ex giving you a little love lately? Do they seem to be more attentive then usual? Do you feel like they are flirting with you? Is this making you feel confused about both your feelings for them and their feelings for you? It should, these are signs of interest, but don't jump to any conclusions at this point, play it out and see where it goes.
Even though this is normally a sing of interest and an attempt to get your attention move cautiously. Remember, there was a reason you broke up originally and you need to decide if this is the right path to take. Make sure not to rush into anything, keep our cool and be sure to think about what you want to do next. If you are interested in getting back with your ex, start from the beginning, take it slow, play a little hard to get, make sure you know they are interested. There are a lot of feelings to think about before re-committing to this person, try to remember both the good and bad times. The last thing you want to do is get back into a bad relationship so be sure your doing this for the right reasons? If it is a good idea then there is no reason to rush, take your time and let it happen.
Remember your ex may not have the best intentions either, they might just be using you until something better comes along. The attention they are showing you maybe a way of flattery to use you for a little something, and then you'd be thrown away like the birdcage newspaper. Be on guard just in case it is all just a ploy to get something else from you, the last thing you want is to get hurt again. So think carefully and proceed cautiously and determine if their feelings of reconciliation are genuine.
Although many breakups can be fixed you need to be sure getting back together is right, for both yourself and for your ex. There is no worse feeling then breaking up so you don't want to put each other through that again. Make sure you are both in this for the right reasons by taking it one step at a time. Better to be safe then sorry, especially in this type of situation.
