subject: How To Attract A Woman - You Need To Know What To Say To Her [print this page] Most guys that I know feel like they don't have a lot of "talent" when it comes to talking to a woman. They feel like what they need to do is to learn what to say at the right time and they don't trust themselves to be able to do this. So, their natural reaction seems to be to avoid any and all situations where they would have to try and come up with something to say and that usually also means that they limit any dating opportunities that they would have. Like it or not, you have to understand how to talk to women and what to say at the right time or else you are going to have a hard time when it comes to dating.
As hard as it may seem to be to you right now, I assure you that it does not have to seem that way forever. Plenty of men that I know that do have the skills to talk to women did not start out that way. What they had to do and what you are going to have to do is to try and get as many chances as you can to talk to women so that eventually it becomes second nature to you and you will know what the right words to choose are at the right moment.
You Can't Shy Away From Opportunity -
No matter what, if you want to get good at talking to women or you want to have the ability to attract women, then you can't shy away from opportunity. Just like a baseball player has to step to the plate to have a chance at getting the game winning hit, you have to step to the plate and walk up to women and start conversations if you want to be able to get dates. Although you may feel like you don't stand a chance, you will never really know if that is the case until you actually do approach a woman and start talking to her.
Recently, I had the chance to observe a friend of mine who claimed to be terrible at talking to women. Well, we went out to a club and I gave him that little "push" that he needed and what I saw was that he really wasn't bad at talking to women at all. What he was bad at was actually convincing himself to make the approach. He would talk himself out of any opportunity to approach a woman and that was the real reason why he wasn't have much success with women. It really wasn't because he was "bad" at talking to women. This might be the case with you. Again, you never really know unless you try.
You Have to Know When To Let Her Do The Talking -
Another thing that a guy really has to work on if he wants to get better at making conversation with women is to get better at listening. This is really something that you should be good at, because it helps you to figure out what to say and when to say it. So, as cliche as it may be for you to get this kind of advice, it is a good idea to really listen to what a woman has to say.
