subject: How To Be More Confident Around Women - 4 Things To Boost Your Self Confidence [print this page] You probably already know that most women want to be dating a guy who is confident and they get turned off by men who are obviously lacking in the self confidence department. While you may know that this is true on an intellectual level, that does not mean that you know what to do to make yourself that way. What can a guy do who wants to build his confidence around women?
Here are 4 things that will definitely boost your self confidence around the opposite sex:
1. To become more confident around a woman, you have to work on those things that you see as being flaws.
We all have flaws, things that we know we could improve. Those are the kinds of things that you need to work on if you want to become more confident when you are around women. So, let's just say that you lack confidence because you don't feel like you are in good physical shape. What you could do and what would make you feel more confident is to become active and work on getting in better shape. Then, when you do reach that goal and you are happy with the way that you look, you will find that you do feel pretty good about yourself when you are around a woman you like.
2. You should try to become used to socializing with women because that can be a source of confidence for you.
A lot of men just don't interact with women outside of work or family situations and if you don't get used to talking to women regularly, it is hard to be able to feel confident when you are around a woman you are attracted to. So, what I would suggest that you do is to find a way to become a little bit more sociable with women. These don't necessarily have to be women that you want to date, but they do have to be women that don't feel an obligation to be nice to you the way that family members or co-workers would.
3. Forget about past experiences where you did not end up getting the girl.
One of the things that will always have a negative impact on the way that you see yourself is when you constantly remind yourself of the bad times that you have had with women. If you constantly play back memories of when you liked a woman but she ended up rejecting you, then you are definitely going to feel like you lack the self esteem that you need to have to attract a woman you want to date. Don't let your own mind become your worst enemy.
4. You also need to become less fragile when it comes to other people's opinions about you.
At the core of having a healthy amount of self confidence is the fact that you can't allow someone else to dictate the way that you feel about yourself. Think about it like this: If a woman were to reject you because she is not attracted to you, that does not mean that you are not attractive to other women. It just means that you are not the right guy for her and that is fine because there are plenty of women that you can choose to be with who will find you attractive.
