subject: Tips On Dating, Dating Advice And Tips, Dating Advice, Dating A Girl, Dating Tips [print this page] If youve been reading this blog and have religiously followed the dating advice and tips that Ive given, then apart from thank you very much, my loyal reader, Id also like to say youre now ready to hit the dating scene like a pro.
The first thing you need to know is that its going to be a lot different from approaching women in random places. For one, you already have her WHOLE attention, so every move you make is already being judged.
But the way you act is another story. For now, the dating advice you need is what to say, how to say it, and when to say it. Theres this quote that I heard while I was browsing through the television the other day. It goes like this: One must always ask himself three things before he says anything: One, does this need to be said? Two, does this need to be said BY ME? And three, does this need to be said by me RIGHT NOW?
That is the cardinal rule of dating, the first tip all men should know once they step into the scene. Think about it and think about it fast. Dating a girl requires a lot of good conversation. The best girls always thrive to know more about you and the not-so-good ones will let you talk from time to time, so really, communication will earn you a thousand points if you know how to do it properly.
Now here are a few conversation starters and dating tips to help you get your groove on.
What to say: You look beautiful tonight.
When to say it: The time you pick her up
How to say it: Easy, man. Easy.
A lot of men do this, but not a lot can do it right. Some men do it too eagerly, like a creepy little predator wanting to feast on her prey. And for those of you who do this, what on earth is wrong with you? There are also those who lack enthusiasm which is also wrong. You cant sound like youre constipated or something. Let it come naturally. You know shes really pretty anyway, so all you really have to do is voice it out.
What to say: Our common friend says youll like it here. I hope shes right.
When to say it: While ordering
How to say it: Look at her, say it, then eyes back at the menu
Letting her know that you asked around for the things she like will let her know that you have your best foot forward. And that dating her isnt just a game. This will also let her know that you always, always want only the best for her. (Cue: Aww!)
What to say: Thanks for agreeing to go out with me.
When to say it: While waiting for your order
How to say it: Smile, then go.
Usually, men say this after ordering in a manner thats very casual, like they just thought of it which is just right as it is little sly with a subtle hint of confidence. After saying this, the girls will probably say something like why wouldnt I or its my pleasure. Make sure you follow up though, because the awkward silence that goes after this is definitely terrifying.
What to say: Yes, I do like [insert interest here]
When to say it: While munching on your steak
How to say it: Say it as it is, let the eyes do the rest
