subject: Do Text Messages Work To Seduce A Woman? Some Real Advice [print this page] A lot of guys seem to want to know about the effectiveness of using text messages to try and seduce a woman that they have been dating. While it is true that texting a woman can be a pretty good way to flirt with her when you are not physically around her and it's also a good way to help escalate things with her, you have to go about it in a certain way. The idea that you can meet a woman and just start sending her sexual text messages and she will suddenly feel massive sexual attraction for you might sound good, but most men find that when they do try to do this, it just does not play out the way that they had hoped it would.
Here is some real advice on whether or not you should use text messages to try and seduce a woman:
1) Before you start sending her sexual text messages, you have to already have take things to that level in person with her.
One of the biggest mistakes that you can make is to just start sending her text messages that are laced with sexual innuendos out of the blue. It might work every now and again if you do it that way, but you are going to be a lot more successful if you wait until you have taken things to that level in person. That means that you should be able to use a little sexual humor when you are face to face with a woman and even toss in some sexual innuendos before you decide to send her some really flirty message.
2) You don't want to make your text messages too long.
Another mistake that guys will make is that when they do send a sexual text message, it ends up being really long. It's usually much better to go with the shorter message than it is to go with the long one. She shouldn't have to scroll down on her screen to see what you want to say to her.
3) If you want to be able to seduce a woman, then all of that texting has to lead somewhere.
Unless your idea of a hot date is sending words back and forth on a little handheld screen, then you probably want to to be with her in person more than anything else. That's why you need to be able to take that texting and have it lead somewhere. There's no sense in just sending her really flirty texts only to end up not seeing her face to face.
