subject: End The Affair - 5 Reasons Why You Should End It and 5 Ways To Stop Being Unfaithful [print this page] I don't know what caused you to have an affair nor is it any of my business. What I do know is that the affair is not healthy for you or your current relationship. All of the lying and hiding and guilt alone can kill you, if your partner doesn't get to you first. So now that you have gotten into the affair how will you end it?
Reasons Why You Should End The Affair
1. You are breaking the bond, trust and promises you made to your partner and he or she doesn't deserve to be treated this way.
2. The affair can and will destroy your marriage or relationship because you will most likely get caught.
3. The person you are cheating with might not be willing to let you return to your relationship without making a fuss.
4. You could catch a sexually transmitted disease and pass it on to your partner.
5. The guilt and shame may overwhelm you at some point and the stress can even make you sick.
Ways To Stop Being Unfaithful and End The Affair
1. Don't end the affair at your lover's place. Depending on the length of the affair you will need to decide if a phone call will suffice to end the affair. This may seem cowardly or cold but your lover might try to convince you to have one last fling if you are alone behind closed doors.
2. Explain why you want to end the affair and how you plan on restoring the relationship you have with your partner.
3. Stop all forms of contact with your cheating partner. Don't fool yourself into thinking you are letting him or her down gently by continuing to call or chat online.
4. Get rid of all the hidden stuff you have from the relationship. All of the cute love notes and pictures and emails or text messages must go.
5. Recommit yourself to your partner and relationship. Spend your time, money and energy on your current relationship. Make up for lost time and show your partner how fantastic you can be.
If you want to end the affair the right way you will need to make the break cleanly. If you can you should end the relationship sooner rather than later. The longer you keep sleeping with the other person and lying to your partner, the harder it might be to end the unfaithfulness.
One way to get your life and marriage back on track is to fix the broken things in your marriage so you don't even desire to cheat.
My advice to you is that you end the affair as soon as you can find some private time to call him or her. If it's convenient for you why not stop the affair today. At the very least end it in your heart and mind right now. That's the first step you must take. The next step is to begin working on your marriage or relationship.
End The Affair - 5 Reasons Why You Should End It and 5 Ways To Stop Being Unfaithful
