subject: How To Approach Women - 5 Useful Tips For Making Good Approaches [print this page] As a guy who wants to meet women, one of the things that you are going to have to get right is making the approach. This is something that most men have trouble with, so if you are able to find a way to get it right, then you should find that it has a way of making the whole dating thing seem a lot easier for you as compared to other men. Not only that, most women will be impressed with you right off the bat if you know how to walk on over to them without sounding like a creep or a goof and that is priceless if you ask me.
When it comes to making the approach, it's best if you already have an idea of what you need to do so that it really isn't a cold approach, it is more of a thing where you are just trying to get to know someone and you feel totally confident about your chances. Most men feel the most nervous when they are totally at a loss for what they should do and that is something that you want to avoid.
Here are 5 useful tips that I think will definitely help you out if you want to make good approaches:
1. Never stare a woman down before you decide to walk on over to her.
This is something that really gets most shy guys in trouble when they go out to places like bars and clubs to meet women. They will stand in a corner or to the side and check out a woman and she will notice that they are checking her out. However, once she does notice, they don't walk on over to her, they just keep on staring her down. When you do this, you start to come across kind of weird, like a guy she might be better off avoiding and that is not the kind of thing that you want there to be thinking when she looks at you.
2. Never get your buddies all wound up as you prepare to approach her.
Some guys still do this no matter how old they are and it is something that you don't want to do. You do not want to get your buddies all wound up and watching you as you approach a woman. For one, it seems a little bit too much like high school shenanigans and for another, it makes the woman feel like she is on the spot. It may also make her feel like the only reason why you are approaching her is so that you can get respect from your buddies and not because you really want to get to know her.
3. It's best to make sure that you smell good before you walk on over to her.
You should make sure that you smell good before you even go out, but if you forget to, then you want to make sure that you have a nice cologne on you or something so that you are not going to gross her out with some weird smell or something. Another thing that you probably don't want is to have too much of an alcohol odor on you, so be careful not to drink too much if you are going out with the sole intention of being able to meet women.
4. Don't put your arms around her before you get to know her.
Some guys make the mistake of being too friendly when they approach a woman, as in they will put their arms around her as soon as they walk on over to her and that usually is a mistake. Sometimes it may work out doing something like that, but most of the time that is another thing that you want to avoid doing. You can do this after you get to know her a little bit, but try not to do this before you even know what her name is.
5. Make sure that you don't just try to get her number or something.
It's best to make real conversation with a woman versus walking up to her and just asking for her number. Most women don't just hand out their digits like that and also, you want to build up some rapport with her if you are going to have a chance at getting a date with her later on. Make some good conversation, don't rely on just a lame pick up line and then you can ask for her number.
