subject: How To Give A Lap Dance - 5 Excellent Instructions For Novices [print this page] In night clubs that cater to men, lap dancing is thought be the favorite form of entertainment. Many women, however, are unaware that they can easily give their man this type of entertainment in the privacy of their own home. It is not difficult to learn how to give a lap dance. Listed below are couple of facts which you need to keep in mind while you try to learn how to give a lap dance, such as outfits, room settings and the erotic moves which make up the lap dance.
1. Practice Makes Perfect - To learn how to give a lap dance you will need an armchair and it is good to have a partner to practice with. If the lap dance is planned as a surprise then an empty armchair can be used for practice. However when you have the company of your partner, request him to be seated on the armchair with his hands on the sides. As suggested by the basic rule of lap dancing, touching the dancer should be avoided while the performance is on because it would be huge distraction.
2. Dress for Success - Choosing the right type of outfits for the lap dance performance is very important because it helps the performer as well as the partner to get in to the right mood which is crucial for the performance to be successful. Women should think about sexy outfits or lace lingerie which excites their partner and then use them as their costume. There is no hard and fast rules, any kind of outfits can be chosen as long as their partner finds it sexy and erotic.
3. Set the Scene - The location where the lap dance performance is intended to take place is important as it can create a sensual and erotic mood before the dancing even begins. Using scented candles or scarves of varied colors draped over lamps and light fittings can help this mood as can the right choice of music. The music should be chosen to suit into the lap dance routine which you have planned to perform. Choose soft romantic songs or any other kind of music which your partner likes. However, make sure that the tune matches well with your dance moves. The lap dance should take place in a private location so that you are not interrupted during it. Once you have the romantic setting and music prepared it is time for you to practice some of the erotic moves.
4. Show Your Assets - The person who is receiving the lap dance must be placed on the armchair and they need to make sure that their hands are kept by their sides. This would ensure that their hands are not obstructing the moves of the performer. To start with the dance performer should try to make eye contact with her partner and move towards him in an erotic manner. She should place one knee between his legs and both hands on the back of the chair. The dancer should move her body in a sensuous figure eight with her back arched so that her partner is presented with her breasts. She should then rest an elbow on the arm rest and raise one leg up onto the back of the chair then gradually run her hands down and then upwards towards her crotch. At this point the performer would try to slide down her body so that it makes contact with that of the partner.
5. Grand Finale - The dance performer should now stand up slowly and sensuously and then try to draw the attention of the recipient towards her legs, hip and butt area. She should then run down her hands over the length of the legs while arching her back. She should then lightly touch her crotch while turning her head towards her partner to give him a sexy look. Then the dancer should take a couple of steps to move closer to her partner while her back is still presented to him and keeping her hands on the arm rest of the chair she should lower herself into the partners lap until she is hovering just over his crotch. She should then move her buttocks and hips in a circular motion and then in a back and forth motion. This completes the lap dance performance and now she can inform her partner that he is free to use his hands now!
