subject: Handle Breakups And Move On [print this page] For most people romantic relationship is everything for them in their life. The early months of relationships are easy, effortless and full of compromises by one or the other partner. But a long-lasting healthy, romantic relationships demand ongoing sacrifices and compromises and endless efforts from both the partners. Building a healthy is relation is not that easy, but if one part of the relation is probably unhappy and contented with other partner, they always end up in going separate ways. In every relationship, breakup is the most devastating and hardest part but is normally happens
There are times when everything seems to be in dark and nothing goes in your favor. The person you loved the most and the relationship that you nurtured the most no longer exist. You have time on your hands and you are in a big dilemma. You do not know with whom to talk, with whom to discuss and share your grieves. People sometimes go into the state of depression and many of them eventually involves in relation with another partner who gives them the feeling of love, security and comfort. Besides, indulging into another relationship, that too without knowing the intentions of the other person can be unmitigated disaster for you.
Every cloud has a silver lining. You just need to be strong and powerful, learn to move on. It is always easier said than done but determination and strong attitude is the key to handle every sorrow. Take out time for yourself and retreating to the safety of comfort zone gives you help to reconstruct your life goal. Change your mind in positive fashion, step by step plan that comes out of your mind and formulate those plans in your life to reconstruct your badly damaged and stressed out mind as well as soul.
No matter which ever side of breakup you are dumper or dumpee, it is always sad and frowning. Everybody reacts to breakups distinctly. Both men and women tend to handle breakups distinctly. Every dumped man thinks that his breakup is most traumatic one. The fact is that every breakup has the same pattern but still the life goes on. Time and life, both are priceless they do not stop for anyone, so stop regretting and blaming own self every day and night and be determined and proactive in helping yourself get over.
Destroy the past, if you want to deal with breakup. Many dumped men remain trapped in the limbo state of mind, hoping that their ex will return to them and nurture all the memories as well as the pictures and love letters. But if you really want to deal with the breakup, you need to destroy them all and if you can let go memories than you cant let go your past.
Breakups are part of life, we all go through it. What matters is your response towards it. Put the past behind you and handle breakups. Go out, meet new people, and make new friends because you never know what next life gifts you.
