subject: How He Touches You And What It Means [print this page] We all know the obvious ones like, does he cross his legs towards you are away from you? Does he maintain eye contact? He he, um, TOUCH you at all? But then there are more subtle ways men show they're into you, and exactly what their intentions are with you. Like these;
The first kiss
It's all fine and dandy to kiss on a first date. However, if a guy gets really aggressive and overly affectionate about it, shoving you into the corner of the booth, going at your neck like a vampire, slobbering all over you he is either 1) just trying to sleep with you 2) super needy and wants an over night girlfriend or 3) drunk. No one should think that kind of affection when just meeting someone is acceptable!
The cross table handhold
If you're on a date with a guy, and he suddenly and quickly reaches across the table to grab your hands, watch what he does next. Does he pick up the conversation right where you just left off? If that's what's happening, he's just into you. And whatever you just said was so cute that he felt he had no choice but to grab your hand. If the next thing he says is totally unrelated to what you just said, he might just be hoping to get laid and holding your hand seemed like a "sweet" thing to do in his head.
Touching the small of your back
First off, if you had any question as to whether a guy liked you as a friend or more than a friend, here's your answer. When a man holds your lower back, don't think he's clueless of what he's doing. That is a flirtatious move. It also demonstrates that he wants you to feel safe and looked after. Keep an eye out for this move and you'll see that men do it at times when they're taking care of you like holding a door open or ordering for you.
Rubbing your arm
This is another move men make when they're still trying to show you they want to be more than friends. My friend is a voice coach at a music academy where one of the other instructors had a crush on her. She urged that I was wrong about this and that he simply stopped by because he was lonely between singing lessons. But then I saw him to do the arm rub to her, right as a student was in the room trying to learn how to sing, and I knew he liked her. It was the only safe way he could touch her in front of a student.
